Connection of Friends Quick Notes

2014 Giving Thanks Campaign

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On October 1st, Connection of Friends began its third year of providing Monday through Friday programming and Saturday Night Socials to teenagers and young adults with special needs.  Since its inception, our participants have begun to develop new and rewarding relationships with one another.

In order to meet our financial obligations for programming and operating expenses, approximately 62% of COF’s revenue is dependent on outside sources which includes fundraising.  In September, Connection of Friends was awarded a Challenge Grant. For every NEW donation dollar received, the Challenge Grant will match the donation up to the aggregate grant award.

Donations can either be mailed to Terry Kline—1502 Coloma Place, Wheaton, 60189 or by using PayPal found in the sidebar.  All donations are tax deductible and a tax donation will be provided.  On behalf of our participants, thank you for your support.

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Amazon will donate 0.5% of the purchase price of eligible product back to Connection of Friends.  With the holiday season fast approaching; please think of us while shopping and click on the link!

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Who We Are

Connection of Friends is a community-based program that provides a place for teens, age 16 and older, and adults with special needs to gather socially with an emphasis on life skill, volunteer and recreational activities on a daily basis and Saturday evenings.   Our primary purpose is for participants to engage in meaningful ways within the community and create lasting relationships.

Who We Are

Some of the many faces at Connection of Friends!

Where We Are Located

Connection of Friends is located at Hope Presbyterian Church, 1771 S. Wiesbrook Road, Wheaton. (Connection of Friends is not affiliated with Hope Presbyterian Church).

What We Offer

COF operates Monday through Friday with varied options of Noon-6:00 p.m. or Noon-3:00 p.m. or 3-6:00 p.m. Our Saturday Night Socials are held from 6-9:00 p.m. Participants sign-up for 13-week sessions and select the specific days and time options. Connection of Friends is only closed on traditional holidays.

Week-day programming includes the planning and preparing of a daily meal; volunteering at a food pantry and nursing home;  volunteering for SCARE (School & Community Assistance for Recycling Composting Education); music; art; gardening;  fitness/yoga/nutrition; product creation and community lunch.  Dinner & Dancing with Friends is offered on select Mondays each session.

Saturday Night Socials

Each Saturday Night Social is themed based on suggestions from our participants.  Examples of past themes include Mad Scientist Night, Country Western Night, Luau, Sports Teams, Neon Party and of course Halloween! We also celebrate birthdays once a month with a Birthday Party Saturday Night where participants decorate and enjoy cupcakes, (please click on the photo album to see pictures).

What Makes Us Unique—Programming Centered Around Socialization

Meal Time Discussion Board

As friendships continue to grow at Connection of Friends, we are committed to finding new ways to encourage and support our participants as they develop relationships with one another.  We recently introduced a new conversation format to develop new conversation skills during meal times.  To provide additional support for our participants, scripts, topics and questions are provided to encourage our participants to choose a friend, ask a question and in turn, answer a question from a friend.

As a way of keeping us informed of upcoming special events or occasions, a “What’s Happening at Home?” form has been developed for families to fill out.  Once returned, participants will be encouraged to share their “news” and celebrate their amazing accomplishments with their friends at COF, (forms can be found under the Participant Forms tab).

During each 13-week session, a new group discussion series is introduced.  Our series on friendship focused on:

  • Initiating conversation
  • Asking questions
  • Taking interest in your friends’ interests
  • Inviting friends to hang out
  • Teamwork

Again, participants are encouraged to practice these skills with one another by using scripts, visuals, modeling and positive reinforcement.

Other Unique Qualities

  • Participant Profile packet filled out by families and participants
  • In-take meeting scheduled with the Program Director and Program Leader
  • Constant communication
  • 3-week check-in for new participants
  • Visual supports including individualized schedules and behavior supports
  • Practicing volunteer skills prior to volunteering
  • Continuation of basic business model of product creation introduced in transition programs
Friends, Friends, Friends music video created and written by our participants!