COF Quick Notes


Please join us on Saturday, April 29th for our annual Trivia Night & Silent Auction Fundraiser! All monies raised directly benefit programming and activities at Connection of Friends.  To learn more or to purchase tickets, please click on the link! Trivia Night Tickets and Information

Connection of Friends is hosting a series of Open Houses for new families.  Please join us on Monday, March 27th to learn more about us.  Whether you are looking for programming to help fill the summer months or have a student that is completing their transition program, we can help meet your needs.  For more information, please contact Jamie Hager Lee, Program Director at 630/260-0922 or at

COF March Open House

Who We Are

Connection of Friends is a community-based program which provides a place for teens, age 16 and older, and adults with special needs to gather socially with an emphasis on life skill, volunteer and fitness activities on a daily basis and Saturday evenings.   Our primary purpose is for participants to engage in meaningful ways within a supported environment.


Where We Are Located

Connection of Friends is located at Hope Presbyterian Church, 1771 S. Wiesbrook Road, Wheaton. (Connection of Friends is not affiliated with Hope Presbyterian Church).

What We Offer

COF operates Monday through Thursday with varied options of Noon-6:00 p.m. or Noon-3:00 p.m. or 3-6:00 p.m. Friday programming is from 9:00 am-3:00 pm.  Our Saturday Night Socials are held from 6-9:00 p.m. Participants sign-up for 13-week sessions and select the specific days and time options. Connection of Friends is only closed on traditional holidays.

Week-day programming includes preparing a daily meal and snack; volunteering at a food pantry and nursing home;  volunteering for SCARCE (School & Community Assistance for Recycling Composting Education); music; art; gardening;  fitness/yoga/nutrition; product creation and community lunch.  Dinner & Dancing with Friends is offered on Mondays each session.

2017 Session Schedule (Through Fall)

       Connection of Friends offers 13-week sessions that run consecutively.  While we conduct Participant In-takes throughout the year, it is important to note the following dates if you are interested in a specific session.  Please click on the link for a list of pertinent dates pertaining to our Summer and Fall Session 2017.

2017 COF Session Schedule


What Makes Us Unique—

Programming Centered Around Socialization

As friendships continue to grow at Connection of Friends, we are committed to finding new ways to encourage and support our participants as they develop relationships with one another. Our conversation format during meal and snack times helps develop new conversation skills by providing visual scripts, topics and questions. Participants have the opportunity to choose a friend, ask a question and in turn, answer a question from a friend.

DQ Book---Website

Social Jobs are another way to advance independence and foster socialization between participants.  At the beginning of each day, participants chose at least one social job which may include:

  • Discussion Leader
  • Warm Up Leader
  • Game Leader
  • Feel Good Helper
  • Exercise Helper

Social Trivia

What is Social Trivia? It is an opportunity for our participants to navigate through social norms in a fun and engaging way through a series of questions.  Here are some examples! (1) What do you do if someone has bad breath? (2) What do you do if someone posts something mean online? (3) What do you do if what you ordered at a restaurant is wrong?


Social Trivia---Bad Breath
Social Trivia---Bad Breath
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As a way of keeping us informed of upcoming special events or occasions, a “What’s Happening at Home?” form is available for participants and families to fill out.  Once returned, participants are encouraged to share their “news” and celebrate their amazing accomplishments with their friends at COF, (forms can be found under the Participant Forms tab).

Other Unique Qualities

  • Participant Profile packet filled out by families and participants
  • In-take meeting scheduled with the Executive Director, Program Director and Program Leader
  • Constant communication
  • 3-week check-in for new participants
  • Visual supports including individualized schedules and behavior supports
  • Practicing volunteer skills prior to volunteering
  • Continuation of basic business model of product creation introduced in transition programs